A couple of days ago I was at your sister's house and she was showing me some photos of you and Katy, which were especially lovely to see as I never had the pleasure of meeting the two of you. I didn't realise you had had so many piercings! Zoe told me about your scaffold bar in your ear, I've wanted one of those for ages. I always wanted my lip done too like you had, but I don't think I ever will. Even though I understand you had to take them out, I feel like this is a topic we could have talked about at great length together. Piercings aren't to everyone's taste, but we are all unique and I think they looked great on you xx

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